Well, another successful and delightful Spring recital is in the books. Now everyone can heave a sigh of relief. The benefits of performing in a recital far outweigh the butterflies beforehand! The experience you gain and the confidence that comes with each performance is invaluable. A lot of planning, practice and preparation goes into making it a successful experience.
The way you practice in preparation for a performance is different than daily practice. Start playing your piece from start to finish; instead of working on it in small segments as you have been doing. Always work on those rough spots as you go if they crop up. Have places in your piece where you can go to if things fall apart (called repair points), so that you can skip ahead or backward to those spots and carry on. Sometime, I'll tell the story of when my mind went completely blank in the middle of a performance. Thank goodness for my repair point!! It saved the day. Make sure that you have the beginning of your piece very solid under your fingers. That's the time you are likely to have the most butterflies and your fingers may be shaking. If you slightly tense up your fingers during those moments, it will help with the shaking. Once you are into the music a few bars, you probably will relax.
When you have it perfected, play your piece for your family, friends or video recorder. It is very different from just playing for yourself in the comfort of your room. Videoing yourself is a real learning experience. You get to see your posture, your facial expressions, your technique as well as hearing yourself play the piece. I also have my students practice how they will end. When you finish, dampen the strings with both hands and lower the harp, signaling your piece is finished. Then to wild applause, walk to the front of your harp, put one hand on the column and slowly bow. A fun thing for students to say (to themselves, of course) as you bow down - "Did I wear my shoes today?" and then on the way up - "Yes, I wore my shoes today!" This makes the bow slower and more stately than a bob! And don't forget to smile and now is the time to look at your audience!
The day is finally here! Your appearance at the recital is important. Fuller, longer skirts or dresses, or pants are appropriate attire - especially if you are on a stage. How you wear your hair is important too. The audience wants to see your face, so pin hair back on the left side, maybe with a pretty clip, especially if it is long. Even long bangs which fall into your face and have to be brushed away can be distracting to those watching.
In the end - the preparation, dedication, practice and follow-through that you learned will help you in any endeavor you pursue in the future. And, after all your hard work perfecting the piece, consider playing it at different venues afterwards - church, nursing homes, school talent shows, etc.